How did you come to know her？

How did you get to know her？

这里面有什么区别，感谢各位老师的解答，有例句就更好了!

    【答】come 后边接动词不定式时，表示一种情况变化的过程，如从“不知道到知道”，从“看不到到看到”等。例如：In time she came to love him.她终于爱上了他。 / You may come to be ashamed of what you have done today. 你有一天可能会为你今天干的事感到羞耻的。/ How did you come to know him？你怎么会认识他呢？（摘自《薄冰英语惯用法词典》p.163）

    get to like / know / understand sb / sth to gradually begin to like, know, or understand someone or something 渐渐喜欢/认识/理解某人/某事物：It'll take a while for you to get to know everyone. 你需要一段时间才能认识每一个人。After a while, I got to like him.过了一阵子，我开始喜欢上他了。（摘自《朗文当代高级英语辞典》第六版）